When we first came home, Monster was incredibly clingy. He couldn't get enough of the baby, and would cuddle up next to me while I was nursing, and be desperate to sleep in the nursery with us at night. However, this has now changed into complete avoidance. He wanders around the house yowling and will NOT come to me when I call him (yes, our cat used to do that). Seemingly, he now feels that he isn't receiving the same level of attention that he is used to and requires. And rightfully so. Therefore, I only have pictures with Monster and Robby from the first couple days, as he is virtually never in the same room now.
Day 1 photos
Harper was initially intrigued, but she was more interested in reconnecting with us than checking out the baby. She wanted to smell and lick him, but would quickly give up and move on. However, she has now transitioned into full-blown jealousy. She "knocks" on the nursery door multiple times a night (by banging the hang tag on the doorknob), will stare at us from as far away as she has a clear line of sight, and does anything in her power to get our attention. This includes stealing clothes and/or pacifiers out of the pack n play, trying to give Robby toys, licking him, and ringing her bell to go outside frequently. Her EPI is also flaring up, she's losing weight, and she's back on antibiotics. It's not out of control, though, which we had feared would happen.
She definitely is torn between interest in and jealousy of Robby, though. The pictures below are from today. She wants to be around him, but also misses being the center of attention. Overall, we're lucky that both animals are very well behaved with him and are doing well, but we're still working on finding a good balance. It would be easier if Chris wasn't hurt, because he's having trouble walking Harper, and I haven't been up for it yet. Though, I did take my first stroller walk today, so I may try taking her on her walk tonight to give Chris's hand a break.
I can only imagine how difficult it is introducing a second HUMAN child to a family, with how much our furry ones are struggling. We'll all get used to the new nature of our relationships soon.